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Moses, Passover and the Adoptee Experience: Reconciling My Jewish Identity with My Birth Mother's Christian Faith
Explore the profound parallels between Moses, the Passover story and the adoptee experience. This post explores the sobering realization of the distance between worlds when an adoptee’s Jewish identity and a birth mother’s faith do not align. Drawing on the story of Moses, Dr. David McCarty-Caplan offers reflections on maintaining personal authenticity and healing through community while staying present in the complex, radical act of love that is reunion.
Apr 126 min read


Search, Reunion, and the Work of Belonging: David McCarty-Caplan Featured on the "Adoptees On" Podcast
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Los Angeles, CA - April 3, 2026 — Shades of Belonging is proud to announce that our founder, Dr. David McCarty-Caplan, was recently featured on Adoptees On , the premier podcast for adult adoptees to share their raw, real, and deep stories of identity and discovery. In this significant interview, David moves beyond his credentials as a researcher and consultant to share the deeply personal events that shaped his life and career. As a Colombian-born adop
Apr 32 min read


The Anniversary of Loss: Moving Through the Weight of Adoptee Birthdays
Explore the complex connection between adoptee birthdays and grief. Dr. David McCarty-Caplan shares a somatic reflection on navigating loss, reunion, and healing.
Mar 96 min read
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